As one ages with memory loss, the differences often noticed first are those that typically occur in our daily lives. (Us O.T.’s like to call those our “occupations” or “activities of daily living”). Though living with memory loss decreases one’s ability to initiate tasks or easily remember to do those previously very instinctual routines, this does not mean they can no longer participate or complete them. As caregivers juggle the almost impossible “laundry list” of to do items each day, we encourage you to consider tasks that your loved ones may still be able to help with. Again, as we say here, “Engaging nourishes the body and mind as we age”.
For example, if you are doing the laundry, feel free to ask them for help, “Could you fold these towels for me, it would be so helpful”. Or as you prepare a meal, instead of sitting in wait for the meal with little stimulation, engage their attention and participation with something like, “Would you help me wash and snap these green beans?” or “Can you stir the brownies for me, you’re just the best at desserts!” Simple tasks and occupations such as these can not only provide brain and body stimulation, they can also provide a sense of pride and self-worth for those suffering from Alzheimer’s and other dementia related diseases. Just because things may be more difficult to remember, does not mean participation and engagement are out of sight. We of course continue to recommend the same level of safety and observation that is typically practiced at home or in the community, but with a little dash of something engaging! (It is our secret ingredient after all).
